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  • August 7, 2017 at 12:05 am in reply to: Childhood/teenage sexual abuse??? #162610
    Samu
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    Dear Anita,

    Thank you. I am delighted! You are right. Movies are on my mind. Others say this too. Please let me know the solution.. what should I do, how etc.

    August 6, 2017 at 11:03 pm in reply to: Childhood/teenage sexual abuse??? #162606
    Samu
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    Btw, m male

    August 6, 2017 at 11:38 am in reply to: Childhood/teenage sexual abuse??? #162538
    Samu
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    Dear Anita,

    JUST FOR INFORMATION – sexual abuse/sexual assault is different in case of boys.. male-male sexual abuse/sexual assault is entirely/totally different from male-female sexual abuse/sexual assault

    August 6, 2017 at 9:02 am in reply to: Childhood/teenage sexual abuse??? #162502
    Samu
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    Dear Anita,

    I face almost non-stop (continuous) psychological problems. When one problem ends, I get disturbed by another (the NON-ISSUES or small problems). I create the UGLY out of even the BEST situation. I am in DISTRESS when there is NOTHING (as per my very supportive family). It could be anything – like if somebody tells me even something mild, I make it such a huge issue, start getting TORTURED and even think of HARMING THEM OR MYSELF. I also TORTURE my family by seeking their non-stop advice on the topic. So, I “CREATE” problems when there are NONE.. when everything is so fine. All this means I am sabotaging my and my family.

    August 4, 2017 at 12:32 pm in reply to: Create Problems For Myself #162208
    Samu
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    Yes Daisy, I feel like this.. exactly like this. But I didn’t know this till recently, at 44!!

    I have not discovered as much as you have but, may be, I will be on the same track (from what I can feel from my intution).

    I think it is escapism, avoidence of reality, the world or life due to fear. It may be due to personality trait or some bad experience in life. It is SUPREME negativity or negativity at its BEST!! In my case, it has taken REALLY UGLY, HORRIFIC turn. In my case, it has become SELF-SABOTAGE of the WORST kind!!

    I think such persons should remove from their system, psyche, awareness – the DEEP-ROOTED, DEEP-SEATED “belief” that some or the other problem is BOUND to come. They are locked, stuck, programmed into it. It is due to long and severe years of negativity. They become accustomed, habitutated to living in darkness that such things happen. Such people are unable to believe, accept anything good or miracle. They “JUMP” from problem to problem just to escape harsh reality or their weakness (in case of personality trait). They CANNOT IMAGINE, ACCEPT a life without problems (sort of).

    NOTE: I AM NO EXPERT.

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