We agreed to see each other on the gyn consult on thursday, meanwhile I asked him to let me be alone this days to reflect about what is best for me right now..

So I finally told my parents and they took it pretty well, however they were shocked about my ex’s respond, they told him that they didn’t saw any compromise from him with me (he hasn’t paid or helped me with anything), I previously had asked him that if it wasn’t for the baby, what would he want for us, and his response was that he would not get back with me…..

My parents told him that they didn’t think that he cared for me at all, the baby yes, but for me… no, that he didn’t loved me……… and he stayed silent. That was pretty hard to take. He always said that he missed me and wanted me back, I guess it wasn’t really true. I asked him for time, to leave me alone for a while, I need to think what am I going to do… Im really shocked and confused.

• This reply was modified 8 years, 10 months ago by Alicia1211.

Thank you Anita! I’m trying my best to be calm, im sure this is the best decision that we can make with our circunstances, I can see that he is willing to give all his effort for this to work for the wellbeing of our baby

In January 2015 I had an accident and became really depressed, I could only see the negativity in my life even when he tried to show me the good instead, after I got back to work everything was really stressfull for both of us and that’s when we started to fight almost everyday, before the accident we didn’t fight at all, a small discussion here and there but that was it. He is 28 and I’m 27 and I’m 3 to 4 weeks pregnant, still very little. He told me that he wanted to do this with me, move in together and see how things work, but after our fight we both considered that this wasn’t the best option because we would be fighting all the time and ruin the small chance that we have to make things right. We decided now to work on our friendship first and focus on the baby, see what happens from there