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January 14, 2026 at 7:55 am #454152
AdalieParticipantI dont think so unless he gets a roomate or makes money or he may want to move to his parents place. I have debt so I am not really helping with our house payment. All I can cover is $60 paycheck for my phone. I used to be able to help with house payment.
January 13, 2026 at 1:19 pm #454137
AdalieParticipantYeah I have debt and don’t make enough to pay off or afford living on my own.
January 12, 2026 at 9:11 pm #454107
AdalieParticipantMy husband basically said im just good for cooling meals. That thats what a wife is for…he often just takes his meal to his room. Comes back for more or just to put his plate away. His comment didnt make me feel great at all. Im a bit disgusted when he sometimes comes back downstairs. Thanks me for the meal and that he liked it. But thats when he shows me he has an election and says thats how much he liked the food and how good it was. I was trying to cook or do something with ny back turned. He comes out of nowhere and hugs me but with his erect penis touching me. I know hes doing it on purpose knowing I dont like that and dont want that. He just says what im just giving you a hug.
Im trying to find therapy so I have someone to talk to.
December 15, 2025 at 10:27 am #452990
AdalieParticipantThank you for responding to everything and giving me someone to talk to. I appreciate it will be okay i think it just hurts. Ny marriage isnt helping either and I feel stuck but I dont think it will be that way forever just stuck right now. Just confused and hurt. Maybe I mattered to the other person in the moment when we met up but he probably isnt mature enough emotionally to handle anything beyond. He was kind and gentle and that does matter.
December 13, 2025 at 5:49 pm #452946
AdalieParticipantIts my fault for meeting up with him and letting something happen. He kept me there this whole time until now. Kinda stupid that im hurt by being unfriended. Dosent help that my husband also said hurtful unkind things this morning. But this is hurting me more. There was never a relationship there just one day and no communication. I didn’t matter enough
December 13, 2025 at 3:44 pm #452939
AdalieParticipantJake has unfriended me on Facebook. It makes me sad and it hurts my heart and it shouldn’t. But it does it makes me feel like I dont matter or never did. I was on his Facabook the whole time till just now. Maybe for the best.
December 13, 2025 at 3:39 pm #452938
AdalieParticipantJake unfriended me on Facebook and it hurts a lot even though it shouldn’t. It just makes me really sad like i dont matter.
November 16, 2025 at 12:55 am #451845
AdalieParticipantNot really there’s things on those links to help but its not real help to get out of a relationship.
November 15, 2025 at 7:44 am #451821
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November 14, 2025 at 10:18 pm #451814
AdalieParticipantYes. I have talked to some holiness but all they can do is give you resource links. I have mostly forgotten about Jake because he used me basically. But I do think about him from time to time.
November 14, 2025 at 8:52 pm #451811
AdalieParticipantIm okay but I want out of my relationship.
October 22, 2025 at 4:13 pm #451160
AdalieParticipantNot but the ghosting makes you feel like that. Theres no way to know what went through his head. The only one who knows is Jake and he dissappeared.
October 21, 2025 at 8:37 am #451129
AdalieParticipantOnly a few times but I quit cuz I didnt wanna bother him.
October 20, 2025 at 5:09 pm #451099
AdalieParticipantHe’s probably forgotten about it. No answers really sucks. I still get to be 1 out of 258 friends in his facebook. He may have cared at the cared on that day. But he probably dosent care now and got what he wanted.
October 20, 2025 at 11:40 am #451091
AdalieParticipantIt is pretty done at least on my side. I have debt and no where to go. So im kinda stuck with Vince my partner and my brain is stuck on Jake. I dont know what happened still from that night. Having no answers and no communication sucks.
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