Thank you Anita,

honestly I don’t know what to think.. it’s like he’s this stranger I know nothing about. It’s so weird to know someone for so long and then find out he’s doing something like that.

Honestly I feel like I wasted a lot of my life but at the same time I can now move on without looking back wondering “what if” because I’m convinced I made the right decision for myself.

Love,

A

Hello,

I don’t really know how this works so I don’t know if anyone will see this but I wanted to make an update.

I’m feeling much better about the choice I made. In fact so much better that I sometimes feel guilty about being at peace so quickly after a breakup.

My ex is not okay, some friends told me he’s not going out and he’s posting old photos (of himself as a kid) with captions about how happy he used to be. I haven’t liked them, I barely looked at them actually. Should I like his photos as I feel they are a message for me or give him his space? It feels really weird to look at them and feel like I’m a stranger. At the same time I know that I can’t keep going back to try to “fix him” it’s just weird to not help someone after being his support system for so long and helping him comes like an instinct to me.

Love,

A

btw I’m not stalking him, I even patted myself in the back for not looking at his profile once. It just popped up on my feed.