No she never did, Â she felt they should be doing that on my time. I never figured out what my time was. She had her grandson generally two nights during the week while her daughter was in school. I was not able to see my grandkids during the week. Â She used to expect me to spend time with them on the nights that they were together. We would ride bicycles or go out to eat. Â I donât think she ever understood that was a problem.