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  • December 13, 2015 at 7:34 pm #89676
    Anonymous
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    Dear tara:

    The clan helped skyrocket your personal and spiritual growth, you wrote. What is the status of your personal and spiritual growth now that the clan has disintegrated?

    anita

    December 14, 2015 at 12:02 pm #89700
    tara
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    Still growing in some way, but stagnant in others. My relationship has deepened, I’m working on the spiritual aspect of my career, but my yoga practiced has suffered… whenever I go to the studio, it’s disappointing and sad.

    December 14, 2015 at 12:38 pm #89701
    Anonymous
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    Dear tara:

    There is a saying in AA/12 step groups: “Principles, not Personalities.” For this reason: people often fail us- their own failings, priorities, and the support we once had is gone. Principles, on the yoga mat- when I hold a Hero 1 or hero 2 pose for a while, I focus on remaining still, strong, paying attention to each foot on the mat, solid. And I imagine I want to be this strong, solid in anything I do. No need to rush. No need to be or execute perfectly. Just remain solid. Me, my feet, my arms, and nobody else. You have you for as long as you live. Make yourself reliable, dependable, strong.

    anita

    December 15, 2015 at 3:54 pm #89755
    Saiisha
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    Hi tara, it’s very perceptive of you to notice that you’re grieving the loss of the community of women you depended on for sharing wisdom, comfort, and personal growth, especially when they helped you sky-rocket it! But a soul’s journey is always alone, no matter how many people you meet on the way. I know this may not be what you like to hear, and you can always find another community to support you until you become stronger in your spirit, but this event may be a lesson that you had to learn. Or maybe a prompt for you to start and lead your own community 🙂

    December 15, 2015 at 4:01 pm #89756
    jock
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    a soul’s journey is always alone. I suspect you’re right. How sad though!

    December 16, 2015 at 5:00 pm #89807
    Saiisha
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    Hi Jack,
    It does sound sad, doesn’t it? And probably why we humans cling to our clans and communities! But we come into the world alone and we leave it alone, even twins! And why we try to learn self-inquiry, self-confidence, self-esteem (I saw your other post about it), self-reliance, self-realization on our spiritual journeys… notice the prefix self-? 🙂

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