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  • October 16, 2015 at 4:49 am #85486
    Anonymous
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    Dear Shun,

    Thank you for sharing your story. You’re so amazing and strong to say the least. It is so hard to be pregnant and to feel what you’re feeling with your husband. But you’ve stayed strong despite the ups and downs. Your baby is lucky to have someone who cares so much. I will pray for you. All the best for the future. May you find strength everyday. And yes, you’re right, people do change, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse…I dont really have any advice but i do admire your courage. Take care 🙂

    Regards,
    Moon

    October 16, 2015 at 8:51 am #85493
    Anonymous
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    Dear Shun:

    You are doing all-the-right-things for your mental health, having the right attitude. The thing is, like you wrote, is the ups and downs, the fact that the peace of mind you experience at times does not last indefinitely. No one’s peace of mind last indefinitely. During those times, when you do not experience that peace of mind, those are the challenging times.

    It is in those times as a mother, when you are distressed, that you will need to un-distress yourself again and again and again so you don’t hurt your baby, your child. Use your distressing times in the present as opportunities to practice doing the right things for yourself anyway, so that as a mother you will do the right things for your child regardless of how you feel.

    Best wishes to you and to your child:
    anita

    October 19, 2015 at 7:40 pm #85692
    Laur
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    I just fell upon reading your story tonight, and I felt the need to let you know I have been where you are. Same situation, and all I can say is having my child was the best decision I ever made. I thought like you, maybe I will abort. I just couldn’t, I knew (me personally) everyone’s different..that I couldn’t live with myself knowing I had an abortion. Some say this is selfish, bc of my guilt I shouldn’t bring a child into this world. And I do agree in a way, but I was 26 when I had my son, and graduated college. So I knew it was my path to have my child regardless of my life falling apart between my husband and I. From reading your post, you seem pretty wise and have a good head on your shoulders, and you would be a great mother. It’s not going to be easy. Whatever you decide I wish you the best. And try and stay positive for your baby.

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