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  • September 30, 2015 at 2:08 pm #84453
    jock
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    No judgement then

    September 30, 2015 at 7:15 pm #84464
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lucy:

    I suggest you have nothing to do with him. Nothing at all. Ever. Yes, do give up on him, see him as part of a closed chapter that is in the past and which will not be opened again.

    anita

    October 1, 2015 at 1:21 am #84494
    Lucy
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    Thank you Anita,

    He is definitely a closed chapter in my life and I want absolutely nothing to do with him.

    He responded to my WhatsApp yesterday stating that this would be his last message to me, how my actions never proved that I loved him and that he is looking for something different in his life – I haven’t replied nor will I ever.
    Another break-up via ‘texting’ – some things will never change.

    October 1, 2015 at 1:21 am #84495
    Lucy
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    Correction: *how my actions proved that I never loved him.

    October 1, 2015 at 8:16 am #84510
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lucy:

    Isn’t he the guy throwing the anger tantrums like a child, the guy I commented before on another of your threads? I am not sure. In any case, it is almost, and maybe, his way of screaming in a sense: PROVE to me that you love me! Trying to rattle you into further proving. If this is so, this is not a healing man but a man stuck in throwing anger tantrums. His breaking up with you, again, is probably not sincere. To do the right thing in any case, whether my guessing here is correct or not, is to have no contact with him. Do not fuel his tantrums, if those are tantrums, or otherwise teach him that he is taken seriously and his wishes are granted: relationship/ interactions are over as he expressed his wish for it to be over.

    anita

    October 3, 2015 at 4:32 am #84606
    Lucy
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    Dear Anita,

    Yes, that is the one!

    Thank you for your advice, this post-breakup feeling is definitely not the same as last time as this time, I am definitely not feeling any sort of loss – only freedom from somebody who is no good for me.
    Needless to say, he won’t be hearing from me, I’m ready to close this chapter once and for all.

    October 3, 2015 at 8:33 am #84610
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lucy:

    Congratulations on your resolution. Please don’t be hard on yourself for not having kept previous resolutions of the kind. It takes more than once, at times. We regress, we get stuck, we figure it out, we move on.

    anita

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