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  • June 20, 2015 at 6:19 am #78509
    Anonymous
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    Dear exploredreamdiscover:
    You can suggest to him that the two of you share the cost of your plane ticket, that he wires you his share of the ticket so that the risk is taken by both of you. This suggestion to him, his verbal resonse to it AND whether or not he follows with wiring the money will give you much of the evidence you need…
    anita

    June 20, 2015 at 12:04 pm #78518
    Aurora Borealis
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    If you have a lot of money, and the place he is at right now is one of your places on your to-go list, then go for it.

    I just don’t want you to be disappointed and end up spending lotsa money in a place with a man who didn’t live up to your expectations, and in a place that you aren’t interested in.

    If he is from Germany, then eventually he will have to come back right? and you two can meet again.

    I don’t know this guy but how is he like? What are his plans after this year long trip?

    June 21, 2015 at 1:16 am #78554
    exploredreamdiscover
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    Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!
    I’d say money’s not the problem as I was quite lucky to save a lot and the place I’d go to see him is also of interest to me… I think it’s just my fear of being dissappointed as his reaction wasn’t the one I had hoped for.
    You’re right – he’ll come back eventually, however, probably not before some time next year, amongst other things he’s still got 8 months in the US on his list. He’s so similar to me – always new ideas, new plans, new fascinations… that’s what scares me in this case… 😉

    June 21, 2015 at 7:12 am #78561
    Aurora Borealis
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    Well, if you really wanna go, make it part of your trip. Have backup plans. Meet people on CS too and hang out with them so he won’t be 100% of that area that you are visiting. Whatever happens, one day, you will look back and go “ahhhh i did that huh” 🙂

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