Hi,

I am in my first year of college and recently hit it off with a boy on my sports team. We spend some time together and really bonded right away and it seemed that he liked me. Unfortuantely, I feel for him, and its been 3.5 months and I haven’t really gotten over it. He’s gotten busy so we don’t really see each other anymore, and I don’t think he knew/knows that I was attracted to him, but I have tried to keep my distance and get on with my life, but somehow I still shake when I’m around him and think about him a lot even though I don’t want to. I’ve also never had a relationship or kissed anyone (except while very drunk on a dance floor) so I feel that I’m never going to find anyone that likes me enough to want to get to know me/kiss me. What do I do? How do I get over this?