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July 17, 2014 at 11:24 am #61158LurkerParticipant
Hello everyone!
I’ve been a frequent visitor to this site for more than two years now and it’s helped me tons. I finally registered beacuse I need your input on the topic above.A little background: I’m a guy in his mid twenties. I live with my parents (not uncommon in my culture). I don’t work. Currently I’m a full-time student. I’ll be done with my studies in the next couple of years. Personally, I have the most common of dreams: finding a lifetime partner, having a couple of kids, being able to take care of them and generally enjoy life. Do work that I feel passionate about and proud of, and that allows me to support the hypothetical family.
Now, this is what troubles me: the business world values are all centered on the ego. Be competitive, offer something others don’t, turn a profit, reinvest, fight for your job, aim to grow in the company. Be better than the competition. Try and fail and try again a thousand times until you make it or you break yourself. Needless to say, I’m not comfortable with our modern lives being so based on money. Yet that is the way things are.
On the other hand there’s the buddhist values. Acceptance, letting go, striving to have no desires, forgiveness, love, understanding, midnfulness.
I’m having trouble harmonizing both currents of thought in my mind. One says “Be better, work hard, you have to improve, you always have to improve. Create your future.” The other says “You are awesome right now. You lack nothing. The ‘now’ is all there is.” How can I blend them? What’s the sweet spot? Where can I find the balance?
Thanks in advance! This community is awesome!
July 17, 2014 at 11:51 am #61160The RuminantParticipantI would actually think that someone with a Buddhist streak would be better as an entrepreneur than someone who thought that you’d have to be harder, better, faster, stronger 24/7. Buddhism respects reality and letting go. A lot of the so called business minded people of today have detached themselves from reality and go for the image instead of actual content. They also stress themselves out by trying to be something that they’re not. There are limits to growth and capabilities.
Why would you have to force yourself to be something different, when you could just naturally do what you’re good at and allow people to enjoy your knowledge and labor? You don’t have to be the absolute best and biggest in your own niche to be comfortable and bring in enough money to support a family. Regardless of whether you work directly with consumers or do B2B, you are still doing business with people, and I think that Buddhism would give you some wonderful people skills. As well as stress management skills! People will come to you and praise about you, if you leave them feeling good. A great product will succeed if people like it. If they don’t like it, then you’ll need to find out why and improve on it. That’s just respecting the reality and not going against it.
We all have to make a living one way or another. That’s not the same as obsessing over making more money than someone else.
Steve Jobs was a practicing Zen Buddhist and he did alright in the business world 🙂 Apparently Russell Simmons isn’t a Buddhist, but a yoga practitioner, but I think he has also this interesting vibe to him, and he’s a pretty successful entrepreneur.
I’m not an expert, but I would think that the sweet spot is in accepting reality and not trying to create a false image of one’s own abilities, as well as not obsess over being better (or worse). You don’t have to be the best to be a success in business, and you don’t have to be the richest person to support your family. Going with the flow might bring you something that the modern business practices you speak of might never be able to do. In fact I have this feeling that things are going to change in the future, because we can’t continue the way we are at the moment. But time will tell 🙂
July 17, 2014 at 1:50 pm #61164LurkerParticipantThanks for replying.
I see your point about not obsessing about jobs or money. I understand it and actually promote it around me, telling a few friends that they should put themselves and their well being as a priority and not the last thing they care about.
I’m really attracted by the idea of working on my own. I think I must have the ability within me to do something that’s good for me and the world, and generates income to live ok. I don’t crave the yachts and fancy cars. All I want is that peace of mind that financially you’ve got things covered and the satisfaction you are doing something you are good at.
I guess what it all comes down to is that so far I have not started on that path. I have never worked. I have never done something that gets me a paycheck. And then I get scared and worry if I’ll ever do it. It doesn’t help that my desire to hold off applying for a traditional job because I want to do things on my own is seen like I’m just lazy, too comfortable in my parents household and maybe scared of the ‘real’ world.
It’s true I don’t have to be the best nor the richest. But I do have to be good and make a living. I need to balance the pressure of developing a succesful personal business from scratch with a calm, mindful state of being that keeps me from drowning in my worries.
I will say that lately it’s becoming more and more clear that I can’t stay at this stage forever. I need to stop thinking and start doing and trust that if I really want to do this, I’ll hopefully find success. I know I don’t want time to pass me by and then regret never trying it.
July 17, 2014 at 2:13 pm #61167MattParticipantLurker,
Consider that you have most of the pieces already, and its just a matter of following those desires you just expressed. The business world builds and crumbles, fortunes made, lost, on and on, but as we bring our heart to our journey, it unfolds around us. Auspicious coincidence, finding other heartfelt businesses and audiences for your widget or service, etc, etc. You’ll do fine.
As far as the balance goes, consider spending more time in the general feeling of where you wish your journey to take you (as in wishing for the space to grow, desire to be kind, family, etc) and don’t fret the big stuff. We find out along the way there is actually very little big stuff, just lots of little stuff, which we can meet mindfully for our benefit and that of others. Look for a good choice, make it, see what happens. No biggie. The heart does most of the work, its deep and wise. 🙂
For the low self value because you’re not a card carrying member of society with an income and clear direction, consider accepting you’re a student. You’re asking great questions, and have peaceful, co-creative desires… that’s plenty, wonderful already. Said differently, perhaps if you can just accept the gift of space and education, and not attach self value to money (either as a yacht owner or a beggar kid) then it’ll be easier for you to build a good map of where you really want to take your life. Somewhere in between something we’re really great at and something we love to do is where we find our garden. Relax, keep looking. Its worth taking some time to find your aim.
With warmth,
MattJuly 17, 2014 at 6:29 pm #61178@Jasmine-3ParticipantThanks The Ruminant and Matt
Hi Lurker
Thanks for an interesting question. You are definitely an evolved soul to be asking such questions at a young age. Good on yah mate.
I cant speak for anyone else but for myself here. See if my thoughts resonate with you. I am not a Buddhist nor do I follow all of its teachings. I understand and respect the values of this religion but they don’t define me at work or outside.
I have worked in both big and small organisations at various levels and now I work for myself with a small but flourishing team. We do follow the modern day business rules but with a twist. Everything that you talk about is correct in a sense. The focus in most big or small enterprises is outwards towards money building or expansion. However, if you look around there are many organisations, which are using spiritual values to provide a very good service and are also making loads of money.
Money is a sweet and necessary outcome of having a good business.
There are 2 ways to look at the modern business values. I will share my view.
1. Be competitive – not with the outside world but with yourself. When you are trying to better yourself each day, you wont need to compete with others as you realise that we all have something unique to offer. No one is going to be good at everything and no one is going to offer you nothing.
2. Offer something others don’t – absolutely. This is called product differentiation. If you are always trying to better yourself, you will be able to produce a product, which is a unique concept for your company. For example, a better service, a better computer system, better communication system. You bring your own midas touch.
3. Turn a profit / reinvest – in business you have to. Without money, you cant fulfil survival needs of individuals or nations. Who will pay for your education, clothes, medicals, etc ? I am not sure why so many people try to make money the evil master. It is not the money, which causes issues in our lives. Money only accentuates our qualities. If you are a dick head and if you get more money, you will become a bigger dick head. If you are a generous person with human values, more money will bring that out even more. Do you get the drift ?
4. Fight for your job – this is a personal value, which often becomes enmeshed with the organisational values. Depending on what sort of leader you have and what values a company follows, you will have to fight for a job (favouritism, politics etc) or you can work your way through different positions in a fair and equitable way.
Many good people fail to progress in their careers due to their own personal values and because they are not able to go past the politics, which exists (and will continue as long as there are 2 humans in a room). This is a very deep concept and you need to speak to a few people about it.
5. Aim to grow in the company – Absolutely. We have not been put on this Earth to be satisfied with just food, shelter and sex. If we were, we would be similar to our 4 legged friends or other legged animal friends. A person who is constantly evolving and expanding is a person who will be adaptable to any situation. This planet is all about change. Look around for proof.
You can change in two ways – you can either grow upwards or you can shrink (or become stagnant). When we are growing, we are in sync with the nature and its natural flow. The question arises – how do you grow professionally with spiritual values ? By working on self rather than others. A person who is able to focus on themselves and the tasks at hand 100 %, has to have maximum creativity. It cannot be any other way. If you are maximally creative, what will you produce ? Absolute gems.
6. Be better than the competition – Yes. Be better than YOU from yesterday. Each day, you should ask a question – Am I better than yesterday ? If your answer is yes, no one can stop your success and money flow. If you say no on a regular basis, you know your answer.
7. Failures and sometimes you have to fail thousands of times – Again, it all depends on your mind-set. Some people fail one time and it breaks their confidence and they feel worthless. Nothing happens of these people unfortunately.
Someone who takes the positive out of a failure succeeds in both personal and professional life. Why ? Because this person is constantly trying to find ways to be better than yesterday. Some very successful people have failed 1000s of times to produce a gem of a product, which has revolutionised the world and brought people like us together to be able to talk like this. Can you imagine, if they had given up, would we be flying today or talking to each other or would our babies have survived past their first year ?
8. I think a lot of confusion arises for new-beeies like yourself in the professional world as you do not have the relevant experience to understand the meaning of acceptance, letting go, striving to have no desires, forgiveness, love, understanding, mindfulness in a true sense. You may be taking the meaning of these words literally. A person who is working on self rather than others is following the values above in every way but is also progressing in life to greater heights. Look at Dalai Lama. Look at Pope. Look at Tolle. Look at Oprah. Look at Obama. Look at some of the CEOs of major companies in the world today.
9. You ARE INDEED awesome right now. You need to come to this realisation to progress spiritually, personally or professionally in life. You indeed do not lack anything. Now is indeed all that we have. Again, you may be confusing the interpretation of these sentences.
To say one thing (or read something in scriptures) and to feel something in the core of our hearts are 2 different things. By telling you that you are awesome as you are, you do not lack anything and live in the now – are you able to do that and live your life that way ? Can the other 6 billion people do it ? NO. Why not ? Because we have a MIND. A very logical mind and Logic has no end. This is where the interpretation differs for us and all the confusion arises.
To reach that state of knowingness, you need to go through the normal steps of evolving. This requires – be better, work smarter, improve, create your destiny, become in control of your mind etc.
To reach that state whereby your mind looses its logic is the day when you will be able to live in a true Dalai Lama style – the sweet spot, the balanced state.
Until then, stop getting confused with all the questions and get back to reality of self 🙂 There is an excellent book by the name: Your soul at work by Nicholas Weiler and Stephen Schoonover if you need more answers.
Hope this helps,
Jasmine
July 17, 2014 at 9:43 pm #61190LurkerParticipantThanks Matt and Jasmine for taking the time to reply.
@ Matt: You made me think I rarely notice that I have actually made some progress. It’s something I tend to dismiss but it would be good to remember I’m already walking my path. It’s true I at least have an idea of what I want to do and think my reasons for it are good. I hear you on being patient and taking the time to develop myself step by step. Thank you very much.
@ Jasmine: It’s good reading your answer seeing you have the experience I lack. Thanks for such an elaborate reply. I’m no buddhist either, I just find some of the ideas Buddhism promotes to be attractive for me. I read everything you had to say and will re-read it later to get as much from it as I can.
It caught my attention where you mentioned the difference between knowing a concept and truly understanding it. I don’t delude myself, I know I barely understand such deep concepts. At least it can be something I strive for right? I will keep trying to improve myself and trust it will get me to a place of both success and peace.July 17, 2014 at 10:33 pm #61191AnonymousInactiveLurker,
There is some good advice, and some not so good advice on Buddhism posted in the responses here.
I want to tell you that the best thing to do is follow your life path.
No one pretends to be something they are not who follows the Buddhist path.
Your journey is about constant polishing and refining of the soul in a positive light.
Honestly, the corporate world is very cut throat because there are many people in it who have lost a sense of direction and humanity.
They lose balance and are overly focused on ego rather than positive products or services that impact society in positive life changing ways.
Being Buddhist is not about having the attitude of a 1960’s hippie and practicing meditation under trees all day long.
Please find a Buddhist sect that you are comfortable with and also look for a mentor who will help guide you.
July 17, 2014 at 11:01 pm #61192LurkerParticipantHey there Anna.
I guess its true not all advice is perfect. I try to understand and follow my path as best as I can. And I definitely agree on self polishing and refining towards good.
I can see your point on both the ‘overly focused on ego corporate people’ and the 60’s hippies. Those are extremes that should be avoided and honestly I have never desired to be a part of either.As for your last recommendation. I’m afraid that wouldn’t be easy. I’m pretty sure there’s no organized buddhist sect in hundreds of miles around me. The idea of a mentor is appealing, but I wouldn’t know where to find one I could physically meet.
Thanks for your reply. I’ll keep in mind I should follow my life path and trust it.
July 18, 2014 at 12:54 am #61193The RuminantParticipant“Honestly, the corporate world is very cut throat because there are many people in it who have lost a sense of direction and humanity.
They lose balance and are overly focused on ego rather than positive products or services that impact society in positive life changing ways.”
This is something I’ve often wondered about. There are people in this world who have billions in their bank accounts, just lying there. I can’t quite grasp what would make someone want to hoard money like that. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that they shouldn’t be allowed to. I’m saying that I don’t understand the reasoning behind it. All I can think of is some kind of twist in the basic security, and a subsequent obsession with having more money. If I had that much money, there are so many things I would want to invest in and see what comes out of it.
The business practices mentioned seem to be mostly spawning from fear, which is why one should ask, are they actually that good? I am sure that there are a lot of practices that are like that for an actual reason, which might not be apparent right away, but I’m also sure that there are a lot of things that people do just because it has always been done that way.
So I guess another advice that could be given is that if you want to be different from others, don’t be guided by fear 🙂
There are already so many new kind of possibilities to make a living or start a business, that I’m not sure if the practices mentioned are that modern day anymore, or are already going out of style. You don’t even have to go to a bank to get a loan to start a business. You could get crowdsourcing for your idea. You don’t have to rely on traditional media to get people to notice you and invest a ton of money in marketing. I’m not saying that it’s super easy to get noticed using new media with no budget, but it is possible to be noticed if you make an effort. Point is, you don’t have to go along with the establishment if you want to achieve something in the business world.
Also, being genuine seems to catch people’s attention. We are so used to the marketing jargon, that if anyone comes across as genuine, we pay attention. People want real experiences, which is why it’s ironic that we drown ourselves in plastic crap and meaningless entertainment. It can’t last forever like this.
But I’m starting to digress from the topic 🙂 Except, I’ll still want to share an article I have been reading now. I had to check if Steve Jobs really was a Buddhist, and came across this piece of writing. I thought it was quite interesting, not from the perspective of what kind of person Steve Jobs really was, but from the perspective of approaching work and product design with certain simplicity and honesty. To pay attention to even the parts of your work that can’t be seen by others. I’m not terribly impressed by the quality of Apple products, but that’s unimportant. The idea is what really stuck with me and it’s something I would love to practice myself: to approach your work (paid or unpaid) as a craft, and make it something beautiful, even if it’s not all perceived by the eye or there is no direct gain in doing so. There is something about work that has been done with love and care that is hard to describe, but you know it’s valuable.
Anyway, here’s the article: http://blogs.plos.org/neurotribes/2011/10/28/what-kind-of-buddhist-was-steve-jobs-really/
July 18, 2014 at 2:18 am #61194@Jasmine-3ParticipantHi Anna @lotusflwr81
Thanks. Hey, can you elaborate on your comment, “There is some good advice, and some not so good advice on Buddhism posted in the responses here….No one pretends to be something they are not who follows the Buddhist path”.
I am really keen to learn so would appreciate if you could bring our attention to what was wrong about some of the Buddhist advice. I am not a Buddhist so I wouldn’t have a clue as to what you are referring to.
Appreciate your help.
Jasmine
Thanks Lurker for your reply.
July 18, 2014 at 6:23 am #61202MattParticipantTR,
“I can’t quite grasp what would make someone want to hoard money like that. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that they shouldn’t be allowed to. I’m saying that I don’t understand the reasoning behind it.”
The same reason people walking on a broken ankle think a lot about their ankle, hoard crutches. Its tough to find a doctor, cast, heal our materialism. So, instead, get lots of tools for the journey of a billion limping steps.
Consider checking out “The Diamond Cutter” a book by Geshe Michael Roach, a Buddhist that explores corporations from the inside. Less “oh, everything is cutthroat”, and more “hmm, what causes what here?”
With warmth,
MattJuly 18, 2014 at 8:18 am #61204LurkerParticipantIt’s been interesting reading the discussion.
I just feel like clarifyng that I wasn’t thinking so much about the common business practices per se(it’s true more than a few seem outdated now). I was thinking about the values behind any business practice. Values that sadly, too often tend to mix with greed, envy or pride to name a few.
As a few of you have said, there is nothing wrong with the corporate world or money by itself. It’s more the energy and intentions behind a lot of what happens. I agree that if you have positive intentions and, as mentioned, see your work as a craft you love, the desired financial success will come from a place of goodness and you would feel satisfied and fulfilled by your job.
July 18, 2014 at 10:09 am #61205The RuminantParticipantThank you, Matt! That actually sounds really interesting. Sorry, Lurker, for possibly slightly derailing your thread 🙂 I’m just honestly so very interested in the topic.
Like I said, I don’t see any problems combining Buddhism and entrepreneurship (though I’m admittedly not a Buddhist, so I’m probably not the right person to make a comment like that), and I would like to see more of those practices put into use in the business world. Nothing wrong with making a profit, but maximising profits at the cost of the well-being of the workers, as an example, is so very shortsighted and quite horrible. Especially larger businesses have a huge impact on people’s lives and the society in general, so there is so much potential there to make a positive change.
As for your point about the intention, Lurker, I agree. Anything can be done with good intentions or not so good intentions.
July 18, 2014 at 10:56 am #61211Dain SuperoParticipantDear Lurker,
Several others have answered your question quite well. My two cents, as both a practicing Buddhist and a business owner, are these:
1. Buddhism is not a religion; its laws are not laws but rather guide-posts to help you find your own path. When you begin to pressure yourself to live a certain way because Buddhist values say so, you lose sight of the true meaning of Buddhism: strike out on your own and find your own way of existing in perfect harmony with what is around you. If, for instance, we lived in an ideal world according to Buddhist values (instead of capitalist values), then you would of course be able to honour all those principles put forth by Buddhism. Unfortunately, we do not live in an ideal world. The answer then lies in finding a balance between who you are and what your surroundings are.
2. The way to accomplish #1 is to pursue a life of self-overcoming, to focus not on others but yourself, to address not external variables such as what other companies are doing but on internal variables such as what you can do best. This shift in mind-state, first, takes much unnecessary pressure off your shoulders and, second, allows you to excel at every facet of your life: personal, spiritual, financial, and so on. This is so because your only goal is to be slightly better today, in however trivial a way, than you were yesterday. Do not worry about the pace of modern day business or about others. Keep your focus within, not without. Be the best person you can be and the rest will take care of itself. This is a natural law of the universe.
May the One-Force be with you.
I am, sir,
Sincerely yours,Dain Supero
July 18, 2014 at 8:31 pm #61236LurkerParticipantI just wanted to thank you again TR for taking an interest in the topic and sharing your opinion. It’s been helpful.
Thanks Dain Supero. I totally see your point. Personally, I don’t think of buddhism as a ruleset I have to comply with yes or yes. As you mention, it’s mainly a guideline to find our own harmony. I take, from your reply and others, that I should keep my focus on myself and my own personal development. If I do this, things should flow naturally and whatever comes is something I can learn and grow from.
Thanks again to all of you who took the time to reply.
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