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    Anonymous
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    Dear @Chris,

    It seems to me like you really, deeply care about Mary. My advice to you would be to be patient. You said she doesn’t like talking on the phone but that you two casually text. Why not having deeper conversations over text messages then? Because it seems like it is your only option for now. Do not force things and try to go see her, talk to her face to face, take a walk with her, etc., especially if 1. she is not ready, 2. if her parents are over protective (which is understandable considering her health situation). In my opinion, she is not avoiding you; but you will never know if she shares your feelings if you don’t let her know how you feel about her. Also, maybe if you share with her what you have been through, she would feel closer to you and be more open to talk to you?

    Emmanuelle

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    Chris
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    Thank you for your insight and reply Emmanuelle, I really do appreciate it! I’ve tried to go the text message route, however sometimes she won’t respond to my messages for several days. She has called me sweet on a few occasions, and while I am thankful for that, I haven’t received anything deeper from her even when I feel I have been somewhat open about my feelings towards her through text. My guess, and this is only a guess, is that she is trying to keep herself busy and not get involved with anyone considering her situation, and may be far more interested in gaining freedom than being tied down with anything that may even be remotely close to a relationship. I think you are right that I just need to be patient… the wait is just very frustrating for me. If she feels the same way though, then maybe it’s just as frustrating for her.

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