Sapna,

I’m sorry for your suffering, dear dreamer, and wish you peace and light. Consider that you can’t change mom, or the accountant… if they choose to ignore healthy boundaries, that is what they will do. And really, its their loss… for while you have to cycle with some shame and anger over getting your boob grabbed and mom laughing at your pain… they endure a lasting, empty space inside that becomes filled only from mutual respect and care. Said differently, love doesn’t rest easy in the hearts of those who ignore boundaries and the sacred nature of our bodies, our free will, our space. So they spin and seek and grab and squeeze, looking for light and connection unskillfully. Hugs to you, sister.

With warmth,
Matt