Hopeful,
I am sorry for your pain. I invite you to read your own posting and look at yourself and your relationship with your friend. How would you judge your friend’s behavior toward you? How does that feel with her treatment of you? Pay attention to that. Examine what are the real reasons why you want to be friends with someone who treats you like how you describe. Look at how you value and feel about yourself. If you were that friend, would you treat yourself that way?

I will be interested in your responses.

Take care Hopeful.

Metta,
Mark