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  • August 24, 2023 at 7:14 am #421608
    Anonymous
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    Hi M

    I think it’s understandable that you’re feeling confused by her behaviour. She is treating you differently from a friend.

    It might be worth having a conversation with her about boundaries so you can actually stay friends if she doesn’t want to date.

    It’s not healthy for her to lead you on. She might not be doing it intentionally, but that is currently what is happening with the special treatment.

    How are you feeling about all of this? It can be tough having feelings for someone who isn’t genuinely interested in dating.

    Wishing you all the best! 🙏

    August 24, 2023 at 7:48 am #421609
    Roberta
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    Dear M

    I am sorry that your relationship did not pan out the way you first hoped for and you are going thru this confusing time of the thoughts are of wisdom & compassion for both you and her and yet the emotions & feelings arise of wanting the situation to be other than it is.  It appears that she feels comfortable & safe with you, but maybe you can get her a lovely soft teddy bear to cuddle up with instead of you.

    The teachings and meditations on Loving Kindness are the ones that helped me when I was in a similar situation for which I am so grateful for and these teachings are now  hopefully part of the foundation of my life. Helping to keep me in align with my aspirations to live a kind & caring life.

    August 27, 2023 at 12:53 pm #421640
    M
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    Thank you both so much I really appreciate it and will try to apply your suggestions.  🙏

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