Big hugs Sapnap3

You shouldn’t feel embarrassed for posting – it’s fine to share your feelings.

It seems to me that you just have to let yourself feel sad for a while.

I also think you have to avoid romantacising your relationship with your ex. It has been my observation that some people have a habit of believing their ex was an angel on this earth – and this is negative because it stops them finding love with someone else because they falsely believe they are settling for someone less perfect. Obviously you won’t be looking for someone right now, this is just something you need to think about for the future.

I wish you peace.

Hi Sapnap,\

I have been thru the same thing. My ex online lover of one year left me in May. All the promises, all the loving words… lost in the echo. I cried and cried. It hurt so much. What really made me mad however, is that he DECIDED that it was over. He DECIDED. Not me, So since he was in control of saying goodbye and he never replied to my emails that I had sent him. So I decided that I was going to be in control of my feelings. However, taking a step back I see I was in denial for the last 2 months of our relationship. In any case, it was very hard. Time was the only remedy. I listened to music, heavy metal I’m afraid, not the nice sweet music. I cried for a whole week, going to work was hard. Being rejected is so hard when you still love the person. Now it has been 5 months. I can say that I am better. I talk online with other guys, nice to hear really nice comments and compliments so I don’t feel like I was a loser. I am now in control and will probably never fall in love with someone on line. My decision, Im in control. I hope you will be able to now feel better and let him go. Your life is waiting for you, when one door closes, another is opening. Stop pinning for him, he is really not worth it. Take care Sapnap.