Dear V:

Welcome back! I think that it’s amazing that you started two threads today, June 12, 2022;  you started your very first thread on June 12, 2021, exactly a year ago, when you just turned 21. Doing very simple math, you recently turned 22.

Your friend T reads like a self-centered person and since you are about to move across the country for grad school, away from her, I would let the friendship run its course and try to make friends in grad school who are not self-centered and who care about other people as well as for themselves.

If you would like to reply to you further, let me know (I will be able to do so in 5-17 hours from now). I will reply to your other thread before being away from the computer.

anita