Dear Kat:

I wish the pandemic was not our global reality, oh how I wish the pandemic will disappear today, and restaurants will open and servers like you will be back to work!

Before I respond further to your current post, I am wondering (having read and responded to your previous threads): are you living with you currently living with your parents?

anita

Dear Kat:

I was hoping you live away from them but I figure this is not the time for you to look for a separate place for yourself, now that you are unemployed..

How is your relationships with your parents at this point, being that you must be spending more time with them now, during the pandemic, than you did before?

anita

Dear Kat

Often when relationships are set a certain way, for a long, long time, it is difficult or impossible to change them. Both parties of the relationships must be motivated to change the relationship. Sometimes adjusting to an existing bad relationship in a way that is less disturbing is the best one can do.

I will be away from the computer for a  while, maybe for as long as 14 hours from now. If you want, you can share with me about the existing relationships in your home, and maybe I will have some useful suggestions for you.

anita