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May 22, 2019 at 5:59 am #295067
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GuestDear Bali:
“I tend to brush off things she sometimes says… I ignore her until she’s no longer talking about the topic… (later) she shows up to my house acting crazy… sent me 15+ texts.. I broke up with her… Her sister tells me that my girl is in the hospital again for cardiac arrest. She had been wrongly prescribed antidepressants in near fatal dosages… How do y’all think I should proceed”?
My answer: call the hospital and verify that she is indeed hospitalized there. If she is, visit her, bring flowers, be kind. Check while in the hospital and verify that she has indeed suffered a cardiac arrest.
It is a possibility that her sister lied to you, maybe at the request of your ex girlfriend, so to cause you to worry. You ignored her while in the relationship, then you broke up with her, she is angry, tells her sister to tell you she had a heart attack, so that you don’t ignore her, so that you will undo the breakup.
I never heard of a cardiac arrest happening as a result of taking too much antidepressants, never heard of such a thing as a fatal dose of anti depressants (I am not a doctor, a nurse or a pharmacist).
If you get more information, please post again and I will reply further.
anita
May 22, 2019 at 6:22 am #295073Faith
ParticipantI would be concerned for how she may turn around at this point. Wouldn’t hurt to ask
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May 22, 2019 at 6:27 am #295077Bali
ParticipantHa! Her sister hates me for and loves to coax her sister to talk shit about me and get her sister on her side to leave me. But here’s what her sister said:
This is alicia. Dad found Nell down and brought her in to the ER at Northside Sunday morning. She became extremely anxious, very argumentative all of a sudden to almost everyone and mean around the time she was released and found out about Carrie being terminal. Just acting trippy, not playful and warm anymore how we know her to be.
We all assumed she was depressed and bitter because of whats going on but last night they learned she was wrongfully prescribed near fatal dosages of two antidepressants by her back specialist she sees, causing manic episodes and now cardiac failure. Shes taken them routinely not knowing and I never thought to check. This team that’s working with her is skilled and compassionate enough to bring her back. Do you recall any mood swings and erratic behavior of her since she was released from the hospital this last time? We’re not concerned with about you twos business just wanna know how long this may have really b goin on
May 22, 2019 at 6:34 am #295081Anonymous
GuestDear Bali:
“Dad found Nell down and brought her in to the ER at Northside Sunday morning”- why don’t you call Northside hospital and see if you can get information about your ex girlfriend having been admitted there on that date, Sunday?
anita
May 22, 2019 at 6:37 am #295083Bali
ParticipantHer friends n some fam are posting things on Facebook, I had my roommate snoop. What do I do
May 22, 2019 at 7:15 am #295093Anonymous
GuestDear Bali:
I don’t understand your recent post. And you didn’t respond to my suggestion to you. If you would like to respond and explain what you need at this time, please do.
anita
May 22, 2019 at 7:58 am #295115Bali
ParticipantI’m asking what I should do about approaching things with her. Her sister wouldn’t talk to me if she didn’t have to, nor does she care for our relationship to try n be matchmaker for me and my ex. This guilt is hard rn. I didn’t want anytginh do with her and I didn’t mean it. How do I find words to tell her I didn’t mean it. I’m not trying to be snappy at you, but I’m regretful
May 22, 2019 at 8:33 am #295127Anonymous
GuestDear Bali:
Do you care to know how your ex girlfriend is doing, if she really is in a hospital, having just suffered a cardiac arrest?
Before attending to your guilt, before you “find words to tell her”, anything, shouldn’t you first find out if she is alive, if she is recovering from a cardiac arrest- or this was a made up story??
anita
May 22, 2019 at 9:20 am #295139Bali
ParticipantI do care to know! I’m going up there tonight. You may not be doing it on purpose, but after I just explained to you that 1) her sister shared this news who has NO reason to even guilt me when she hates me and 2) her own friends and family have gone to see her and have made posts on Facebook afterwards about it and you’re STILL insinuating this is a made up story. You appear to have formulated your own opinion from a cynical standpoint, despite me saying friends and family are involved at this point. And actually a person CAN develop cardiac arrest as a result of too high an antidepressant dosage, much like too much of any medication. It’s more common than not for cardiac arrest to result, and that’s according to google. So before you start interjecting your doubt into a platform for guidance to others, when you clearly did not research your argument, but instead based this partly off not being familiar with a pathology. That means you didn’t have the range to discuss it.
May 22, 2019 at 10:18 am #295161Anonymous
GuestDear Bali:
Clearly a miscommunication between the two of us. I hope you experience better communication with other members.
anita
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