Dear Tiny Potato:

It makes sense to me that you blocked him even though he didn’t answer your messages/ was not contacting you or harassing you. What the blocking does for you is that you no longer wait for him to contact you, knowing that whether he does or not, you will not  know about it.

If he thinks you are immature for blocking him, does it really matter to you? After all, you don’t know what he is thinking right now. People think a lot of things that aren’t true. If he thinks something, doesn’t mean it is true. I am sure he thinks a lot of things that aren’t.

Is my response helpful to you, or did I miss something else that you would like to address?

anita

Dear Tiny Potato:

That he “could just cast (you) aside so easily”, that he may cast women aside so easily, doesn’t have much to do with the women he casts aside but with his childhood experience, his early relationships with his parents.

A whole lot of our behavior as adults, in adult relationships, has to do with our early relationships with our parents when we were children. (There is also the element of what society teaches us  about gender roles, as well as some gender specific biological factors we are born with).

anita