So I’ve been talking to this dude I went to highschool with. He messaged me first. We’ve hung out, we flirt, have hooked up and  speak nearly everyday for the past two months. I’ve started to like him but i felt unsure if i wanted a relationship with him.  So i guess we decided to be friends with benefits or something like that. He ended up asking for advice on another girl and it hurt my feelings and he knew I had feelings for him when he did it so it upset me. And ever since then we’ve just been talking less. I feel weird bcus he used to talk to me all day. Then he ended up telling me he wasn’t gonna try to pursue her anymore. We hung out again but things still feel different like he is more distant and sometimes he would answer a text like the next day or hours later and i understand that ppl have lives its just so much more different from the treatment I used to get from him. He says he likes me but it doesnt show anymore.

I would give a relationship with him a shot but at this point in time I dont think that is what he wants??  I don’t want to overwhelm him with questions like are we gonna date?? do u like me??? but at the same time i dont want to continue texting him and hanging with him if Im just gonna end up dissapointed but i also dont wanna just stop talking to him bcus i feel like there is a possibility