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  • June 26, 2018 at 2:47 am #214177
    Anonymous
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    Dear Rech:

    You wrote that you live in a different country for your Masters. You don’t have a place to stay, will be your 5th move in a year, didn’t make friends, “people just hate me and I don’t even know why they just instantly start hating me”. You have a boyfriend with whom you had a relationship for ten years but he wouldn’t visit you “when I need him the most”. Therefore you are considering ending the relationship.

    You wrote that you are “in a lot of stress right now (because) of office and no place and no people to talk to”. You are asking if you should break up with him.

    My answer: it is not the right time to break up with him. It is not the right time to make any decisions you don’t have to make at this time. You are understandably distressed and we can’t think clearly when distressed. Got to take care of a few things first, find a place to live, that must be first priority. Focus on that. Relax best you can.

    If you asked or maybe demanded a whole lot from your boyfriend this past year, it is understandable that he doesn’t rush to you one more time. He may be a good man who loves you but cannot help you more than he helped you already.

    When distressed, maybe you can take a fast walk outside, release some of the distress, then come back to the business at hand, finding a place to move to and other necessary tasks of the day.

    I hope you post again. I would like to read more from you.

    anita

    June 26, 2018 at 8:48 am #214251
    Roberta
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    Iam not sure how to explain myself.My boyfriend of 8 years has been acting alittle wierd.Maybe its me i have a very difficult time trusting him with this roomate of ours 15 years ago they were roomates and ended up sleeping together a few times he had toldme about her prior to us being a couple,He says they are just friends and thats all there is going on butmy gut is saying tome something else.Like we live in a fairly big house approx 4 thousand sq ft we live on one side she lives on the other but we allshare a bathroom when he goes to take a shower he stays way longer then i would if iwere a man men are in and out you know what iam sayin lol.He  then comes back tothe room red and alittle cold shoulder tome thats what i think anyways he says your crazy he has never gave me any reason not to trst him  oh have i mentioned shes ten years older then us we arein our 50s shes in her 60s, and to top it all off shes not attractive at all ugly if i were looking at a mans point of view iam not saying this to be mean iam pretty and i get  looked at all the time and flitered with on a daily bases how can i have faith and trust him when he does alot around the yard for her etc am i looseing my mind or is he playing with my head. He loves women and finds women sexy he loves sex never has turned me down but do you think he is getting oral sex or sex from her or am ijust trippin on him because he keeps telling my baby ilove younot anyone else yourpushing me away stop it already what should i do lonely and confused

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