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I am madly in love with a girl. What I should do?

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  • May 24, 2018 at 10:44 am #209217
    Harmilap
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    were in the same standard in high school, she also had some feelings for me but when I proposed her she said she don’t like me and made a boyfriend, now they’re married but I can’t get her out of my mind. 5 years have passed out but I still love her. What I should do ?

    May 24, 2018 at 1:20 pm #209253
    Sofia
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    harmilap,

    one thing that I’ve learned is that a healthy relationship can not be made by 1 person.
    it’s not a pleasant thing to hear but it is true.
    if you love her, you’d be happy for her happiness and if her happiness is being with whom she is now, the best you can do is support her, be her friend and be there for her.

    maybe, one day, she’ll have another opinion, other goals in life, whatever it might be and in those might be her love for you but, for now, live in the present, be comfortable and happy with yourself and be her friend.

    remember that a healthy relationship is made with 2 complete persons, complete yourself first and let life proceed naturally.

    much love,

    S

    May 25, 2018 at 1:01 am #209305
    CarpeDiem
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    Harmilap

    I feel your pain. I was madly in love with my ex gf. I had a hope for one year that we might be together post our break up.
    Last week I got to know that she is dating a guy I know. I am going through envy, jealous and heart ache. I have decided to leave this city in order to help me move on but I started some healthy habits a while ago which I know if I continue, I will be better in future

    1) I am trying to accept the reality that is the present
    2) I am trying not to take things too personally

    3) I meditate ( I have been doing this on and off for last 45 days and I will trying to keep it for good in my schedule)
    4) I pray for everyone, even those who hurt me

    5) I wake up early in order to get things done

    5 years in a long time to think about someone. Did you date anyone in the meantime?

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