Dear JonathanSeagull:
You made plans and promises to your girlfriend without thoroughly thinking about it, because it was convenient atĀ the time. CanĀ you tell meĀ of theĀ biggest promiseĀ you made toĀ her, what it was, in what circumstancesĀ did you makeĀ that promiseĀ to her (was it a part of a conversation with her, or conversations over time, wasĀ it following her placingĀ pressureĀ on you, andĀ soĀ forth)?
anita