Dear Haron:

Let me see if I understand: you are fifteen. Two years ago, when you were 13, you fell in love with a boy, a family relative, and had “a pretty strong relationship” with him for some time. A friend of yours told about this relationship to your family. Your family disallowed you to continue this relationship.

You saw the boy several times since,  in the presence of your family but you and him never talked about the separation and how it came about. Recently you came to online contact with him and explained to him how the separation came about. He told you that he has been waiting for you. Later he sent you a message denying that it was him who communicated with you earlier.

Did I understand correctly? If so, can you describe that “pretty strong relationship” you had with him two years ago?

anita

Dear Haron:

Maybe someone in his family … caught him emailing you and he sent you that email denying it was him so to show that family member that he is not going to continue the contact. Do you think this may be it?

anita

Dear Haron:

You are welcome. It is difficult if not impossible to reach a conclusion without information. I wish you had the information you need.

anita