Hi bwale,

I unfortunately, have been in many long distance online relationships. Many of these men, I met on Social media sites such as Google plus, Facebook, etc. Many of them, I developed a very special bonding with..we would talk for hours on video chat such as messenger, Hangouts, and other platforms. Many times, there were long pauses when we would write back and forth. I knew he was writing to other women. It’s extremely difficult to make a long distance online relationship work. Many of the men I talked to were from different continents, states, etc.

Some of these men ended up being very dishonest, finally asking for money, or an arranged marriage, or on other dating sites, catohishing, you never know who you are really talking too with someone online. It’s too complicated, too much doubt and insincerity on their part. Too many games. Too many flirty emoticons being sent to other women behind my back. Best bet, meet someone local. Or a reputable dating site. Not tinder. x