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How to feel comfortable with ex-girlfriend in mutual friendship group?

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  • October 30, 2017 at 8:41 am #175711
    Anonymous
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    Dear James Ireland:

    I think that your ex, having had a relationship with your best friend at the time was significant enough for her to share with you in any context, including a long distance casual friendship. There is dishonesty in her none sharing.

    You wrote: “I would love to see this friend group and relive some of the great times we had”- things changed so having the same great times is probably not a realistic expectation. She is not part of that group, correct? If so, maybe you can talk individually with her ex boyfriend, your ex best friend and figure out the current state of that friendship.

    anita

    October 30, 2017 at 8:50 am #175717
    James Ireland
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    Hi Anita,

    Thanks for the response.

    I may have missed mentioning, that she has become increasingly part of that other group (for reference, we all went to University together – me, ex best friend, ex girlfriend) and since we broke up she has maybe spent 20-25 weekends with them, wheres I have only spent 4-5.

    October 30, 2017 at 9:09 am #175721
    Anonymous
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    Dear James Ireland:

    That makes the expectation of resurrecting the same experience with the group more unlikely.

    anita

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