Dear Jay-me:

You wrote that all your exes “get girlfriends after they broke up with (you) and their relationships lasts long”- significantly longer than their relationship with you, you mean? If so, what do you think is the reason for that?

Regarding your current boyfriend, you stated nothing positive about the relationship, and his daily drinking after work is something you strongly dislike. What motivates you to stay in this relationship?

anita