Dear J:

Glad you posted again. Two years ago you shared about your frustration with your brother who called you only when he needed something from you: is that still the case with him? And at the time you were living in your grandparents’ house, owned by your parents who were unhappy with you and your husband not putting more work into it. You felt angry at them. Your other house was on the market at the time.

Did you and your husband move out of your parents’ house? Are you still angry with your parents?

anita