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  • March 30, 2017 at 4:37 pm #143009
    CB3
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    Dear Carey Bounds,

    You did the proper thing!

    You presented your feelings and ideas in a rational way and even waited, and waited, and waited for a response, acknowledgement, or progression only to be left idly waiting.  Even if “Mr. Great for the most part” didn’t want to move in or had a different plan he never presented it to you (or he may have, not sure only you know) but clearly enough lack luster was present for you to make an informed and direct action.   If he has a change of heart or a moment of clarity, would you conciser rekindling?  That’s the true question, if the answer is yes, you two have some unfinished business, if no…..well then your actions are well founded.

    As for him living with is ex for such an extended period, I cannot stress this enough, DO NOT INTERNALIZE THAT! As an outsider, that seem more a convenience (dare I say crutch….) than a solution or an expression of independence.

    Carey Bounds, I think you did the absolute right thing!

    March 30, 2017 at 6:17 pm #143017
    Craig
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    Dear Carey Bounds, If you got to the point of being deeply unhappy and depressed, then it makes sense that you changed something. You can’t change your partner, and you had shared your desires with him. You didn’t change yourself to become satisfied with the status quo (I’m NOT suggesting you should – I’m only walking through the options). All that’s left to change is to look elsewhere for what you want and need.

    It’s possible – but don’t count on it – that your decision will trigger your ex to re-examine himself and what he wants, and he may return to your life. But don’t wait around for that.

    Best wishes.

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