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  • February 12, 2017 at 6:46 pm #127295
    Anonymous
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    Dear 3bunnies2:

    From your account, his mother’s attitude toward you changed drastically a year into your relationship with her son when the two of you broke up. The reason for her change is probably because of the break up- likely she saw her son hurting as a result of the breakup and figured you are the reason her little boy is in pain.

    Maybe she feels betrayed by you- having welcomed you into her family and in return, you hurt her boy.

    If I am correct, she will change back her attitude toward you only if she believes you are good and safe for her son and will not hurt him again.

    Your thoughts?

    anita

    February 12, 2017 at 7:10 pm #127298
    stephanie
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    Hi Anita,

    Thank you for your reply! I hadn’t thought of it in that sense,I took her actions as being a personal attack to me as an individual and not a form of protection.

    My only concern is that I will never have a chance to show her that my intentions mean well because I’m afraid that her attitude towards me will influence my partner in his decision to want to be with me again.

    February 12, 2017 at 7:21 pm #127299
    Anonymous
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    Dear 3bunnies2:

    I suppose your boyfriend’s attitude during the breakup, when he was hurt, influenced his mother. If they were and are close, maybe he told her things, given her details about the relationship and the breakup that convinced her you are not a good partner for her son.

    Your boyfriend is working on his relationship with you even though his mother is not for the relationship anymore. So her attitude is not that powerful, is it?

    When you knew her was she a dominant woman who was controlling of her son… ?

    anita

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