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  • February 10, 2017 at 11:06 am #127190
    Anonymous
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    Dear BJ:

    I hope you feel better soon enough.

    Let’s look closer, if you are willing, into one of the relationships that didn’t work out. You wrote about one of those: “one person didn’t tell me that they were terrified of dogs until after a few dates. when I said i would be there for her if she wanted to over come her fear. What i got in return was ‘Don’t get too attached to them, they don’t last that long'”-

    Was that the end of that relationship- her statement that you quoted? What bothered you about the statement she made?

    anita

    February 13, 2017 at 4:45 am #127308
    BJ
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    Anita,

    We just stopped talking after she told me I don’t understand her fear.

    I have two small Frenchies one will be 9 and the other is 2. If you look on my Instagram gram page you can see the “bjgardentotable” The one that is 9 is my heart and soul. The said what she said twice to me. After the first time she said it. I told her everything dies eventually and that it is the time spent with them that is important. I felt like she really didn’t have a heart. Something so close to my heart and she is telling don’t get attached.

    Thank you
    Anita

    February 13, 2017 at 8:18 am #127371
    Anonymous
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    Dear BJ:

    I understand. She told you to not get attached to the dog you are already very attached to- a cold statement indeed, coming from her past hurt still seeping into her present (then).

    The last relationship not working out is understandable, it endangering employment.

    To get better results dating, maybe you can take a break, come up with lessons-learned and how to approach dating in the future using those lessons-learned. Re-do your dating strategy?

    anita

    February 13, 2017 at 12:14 pm #127459
    BJ
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    Anita,

    Thank you, I have already taken down my page on a dating site that I was on.

    BJ

    February 13, 2017 at 12:16 pm #127461
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, BJ. Post anytime.
    anita

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