One of my best friends is embracing healthy principles. While this is a good thing, this is impacting our friendship in a very negative way. This is upsetting. Many of my friends follow these principles and it had a positive influence.
If we do something, go out, have lunch we must follow her needs because she has to put herself first, her happiness first, her body first.
If we complaint She will say I am sorry but won’t apologize because this is who she is.
She can be mean and quite judgmental but she says she is just being honest.
If I refuse to discuss an old issue to avoid an argument she says I am not being a true friend
while she is always looking for advise on various issues, I stopped sharing my problems with her, because she will just interrupt me and say that I have to believe in God and trust the universe.
Our relationship is becoming hard work. I have been generous with her and understanding on many occasions but I’ am feeling drained, restricted and undermined. I wish sometimes we could just spend a nice evening.
I tried to talk to her a few times – but there is no connection. It is her feelings first (and she added I’m being melodramatic because of my background…)
This has been going on for a while. I am waiting for some test results. I may receive some good or bad news but I haven’t told her. I wish I could but I don’t need more stress.

What should I do?

Thanks
Linda