Dear kdizzle:

Any idea why the ex threatened to call security when you called him for answers/ closure? I would imagine threatening that will be reasonable if you threatened him, or if he told you in the past to never call him and you called anyway… why this kind of reaction, any ideas at all?

I didn’t expect your no-contact with your mother to be an easy, linear process. It is impossible for it to be either. There will be plateauing and regressing- these are parts of the journey.

I forgot, if I read it before, but did you cut contact with her in person, on the phone, email? How did you word it to her and what was her response?

anita