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  • November 15, 2016 at 8:18 am #120443
    Anonymous
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    Dear stasia0331:

    I don’t know what he was thinking when he wished you to have a good winter. There may have been no intention in it to not communicate throughout the winter. If I was you, I wouldn’t assume there was such intent.

    What I would do, if I was you, would be to send him a message today or in the next day or so, something like:

    “Thank you so much for helping me with the project yesterday. (Insert a sentence here regarding how specifically he was helpful). Earlier in the year I expressed to you an interest in being more than friends but I am now, and have been for a while, comfortable and content with being only friends and nothing but friends. I value your friendship and would like this friendship to continue. Again, thank you for your help yesterday. (Insert a sentence about what you are going to do with the project next).”

    anita

    November 15, 2016 at 8:52 am #120445
    Peter
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    Sorry to be a naysayer
    My opinion for what it’s worth – move on.

    By all means be upfront with him about what you want, but be honest, you don’t just want to be friends.
    Any “lets be friends” conversation will likely be interpreted as you wanting something more anyway.

    Ask for what you really want and be ok with the answer. Yes or no

    If you settle for maybe, “lets be friends” in all likelihood he is going to open and close this crack in the door over and over again and your worth more then that.

    The end is in the beginning.

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