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I want to go back with my EX, but will it be good for me and my health?

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  • October 2, 2016 at 8:48 pm #116965
    Anonymous
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    Dear Alexy:

    The ex short term girlfriend from Japan told you on skype recently that she enjoys being single for right now, so there is no committed relationship between the two of you, correct? You want to go back with her (title of your thread) but if she likes being single, doesn’t it mean she is not interested in a relationship with you?

    If you had a relationship with her, would that be a Long Distance one mainly?

    anita

    October 2, 2016 at 8:52 pm #116967
    Alexy
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    That’s right, no committed relationship. That means it could or could not happen. And maybe I am getting ahead of myself. And yes it would be long distance, although I plan to move to Japan in less than 2 years. I dunno, she might not want to get back into the relationship, that is totally true. I am making assumptions. But I think we have a chance of being together again. I will be visiting her in a couple of months.

    October 2, 2016 at 9:03 pm #116972
    Anonymous
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    Dear Alexy:

    Since long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and since she did cheat on a long distance boyfriend, I wouldn’t – if I was you- try to have a relationship with her at all, not a long distance one. Think of friendship only when long distance (including during a visit).

    Considering the difficulty in long distance relationships and your anxiety, your overthinking, I would say: Aim at a committed, monogamous relationship with a woman short distance, one you can see in person on a regular basis where you actually live, is my advice.

    anita

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