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  • July 31, 2016 at 8:13 pm #111136
    Anonymous
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    Dear muchisima5:

    I am thinking you are unsettled, not only career wise. You are uncomfortable being you, at this point. I think that is the restlessness in you, the restlessness that motivated you to leave your ex boyfriend and move across country and it is the same restlessness that is now pushing you toward leaving your current boyfriend.

    When you left your ex part of you wanted to end up with him later. Now part of you wants to leave your current boyfriend and that part is enlisting feelings of longing to your ex and feelings of resentment toward your current boyfriend so to .. push you along toward leaving.

    This unsettled part of you will motivate you to keep moving and moving… trying this and leaving and on and on. Better attend to it, study it, understand it.

    Let me know if my understanding is or could be correct and we will continue, if you’d like.

    anita

    August 1, 2016 at 5:39 am #111160
    Jen
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    Hi Anita, thank you so much for your input.

    I am restless. I do, and have for some time feel the urge to keep moving. On the one hand, one of my goals is to adventure and explore the world as much as I can – but at the same time, I should be able to appreciate where I am in the current moment, and I don’t seem to be able to. To this day, I don’t feel that I had a rational reason for leaving my ex-boyfriend, other than needing to explore and have my own time, which probably was that restlessness you are talking about. I also do have very high foresight, I visualize and contemplate any and all possibilities, that “grass is greener” idea, and it probably makes this restlessness much worse.

    Can you offer any words on how to understand it / move it through? I want to be able to appreciate my current situation. I appreciate your time and your words so much. Thank you.

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