Hey Cynthia!

Obviously I have no need to state that the above is incredibly well put! 🙂

I had spent a good couple of years in the grey of a “DSPRD” ( Dramatically Stressed Post Relationship Disorder 😉 ) and have in the past 10 months found a new light in my day!

I think sometimes the hardest part is finding those things in yourself you love, especially when school, work and social life ( as well as the many other things you hopefully share with your partner) revolved around the person you were with! And as such, much of getting on with your life means moving away with the memories and lessons of the past, even if it doesn’t always seem possible.

For me I found Music, Spoken Word and Painting (all things I never, never, ever in a million years thought i’d enjoy or be acceptable at) but my entire perspective of myself and my Love 4 Life has changed! 🙂

SO to the rest of the people who are going to read this… Take the Advice, its Darn good! In ways, for all lessons in life, these Steps hold Value!

Hold strong, Stay Young, Even if its just at Heart!

Kinds Regards,

Beautiful insight Cynthia. You are beautiful in and out. Perfect combo 🙂

Your post is going to inspire many.

Best wishes,

Jasmine

I am 9 months into a break up. A rather bad break up. An all of a sudden, I thought we were making progress but instead “I’m moving out” break up. A break up that left me financially and emotionally weak. A break up that brought forth feelings of abandonment, rejection and the constant question since the break up, “whats wrong with me?” For me, this was a break up like no other.

I have had break ups before, but this one, this one left me feeling broken. This one left me feeling unloveable. I started neglecting all that was good about me and my focus was to search for the bad. You hit it right on the mark when you mentioned still waiting for that day when the phone rings and it’s from him. That was me. I found myself waiting for those magical words “I am sorry, please forgive me, I made a mistake, can we try again?”

Thank you so very much your article/blog…..I needed it.

“This guy is here to heal you, to show you the path to freeing yourself from the old patterns”…..

This is the statement that has me changing gears and refocusing on me (in a positive manner). I know the relationship was a lesson. A hard lesson. But a necessary lesson. And that statement, solidified it…

Thank you….

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